Developing self-esteem requires quite a work for the person who is currently experiencing such. The people surrounding this person could play an important role to enhance a higher level of esteem, most particularly if they are aware of this experience. Hence, both the inner and outer forces of a human being can create a better understanding of one’s self.

In order to achieve a better regard for one’s self, one has to look at himself or herself as somebody who is good at something. For example, engaging in an intellectual or physical activity, like playing games, sports, or any other fun exercises (may be singing or dancing, poem recital etc.) A positive interaction could occur while doing the activity. At that point, sincere praises or compliments may be uttered depending on the circumstance.

Just remember that there might be a need for some series of events in order to achieve a greater impact. If one continues to receive good remarks or responses, he or she intends to develop that confidence in himself or herself. They will then start to appreciate the beauty and goodness in that experience. It must form some kind of a habit. In other words, a usual occurrence must take place, not just accidental.

So I think it is best to find out what they enjoy doing best and start looking at their strengths, instead of where they are weak at. My book, “You are Privileged, 12 Success Principles to Uncover Your Innermost Potential” discusses some points on this topic.

Hopefully, this helps.

Sheila Atienza,
Author of “YOU ARE PRIVILEGED, 12 Success Principles to Uncover Your Innermost Potential”